Tango Therapist

Once Upon my Feet Our daughters sketched tango dancers With red and black crayons. At the early milonga they'd draw. I always promised ...

Walking-Embrace, Searching I met her at a milonga some months back. We danced often, but I did not know . Her face had a concern I could not...

Chasm-Embrace She called me "her knight" before I left. We would dance all night, holding tight. Then a tanguero from the City ca...

¿La Culpa es Mía? A favorite tanguera of mine wrote on Facebook, "Great tango vals class with Fulana today. She is very precise, and pl...

Her Shoes at my Door She forgot her shoes at the milonga. I agreed to take them to her the next day, But this morning I saw them...

Organic tango* is a term I use to describe what happens when the music and and the chemistry between two people create something that is u...

Women do lead.   Evolving away from the Tarzan-Effect But how do women lead? They lead the way to new dance ideas.  Sometimes by just pausi...

Tango- Akzent Near the border of France I enter a milonga in Saarbrücken. She is French, We speak in German. But our mutual language is tan...

Is your tango sustainable? "Green-Tango," is taking care of yourself and having a tango community that will last.  "Red-...

This is the last of a series on dealing with rejection.  The assumption from the start was that tango gives its own special challenges for r...

This is the fourth of a series on dealing with rejection using tango to grow psychologically and reduce the drop-out rate when rejection/dra...

The Older Woman I knew she gave herself fully to the best tangueros . I watched in awe of her animated femininity. So far ahead, she ...

Pneuma-Tango: Solution Number Five The third installment on the theme of solutions to rejection. See earlier solutions 1-4. Solution Five ...

Soul-Work through Tango Therapy Earlier, we looked a 3 solutions to get through and over rejection as a tango dancer (and in life).  The nex...